I promised feygirl, so here is my first poll/meme?

Tell me, tell me, tell me do.

1. Your Name:
2. Age:
3. Favorite position:
4. Do you think I'm cute?
5. Would you have sex with me?
6. lights on or off?
7. Would you have to be drunk?
8. Would you take a shower with me?
9. Have you ever thought about having sex with me?
10. Would you leave after or stay the night?
11. Do you like cuddling afterwards?
12. Condom or skin?
13. Have sex on the first date?
14. Would you kiss me during sex?
15. Do you think I would be good in bed?
16. Would you use me as a booty call?
17. Can I use you as a booty call?
18. Can we take pictures of the act?
19. How long would we have sex?
20. Would you tell your friends about me?
21. Will you post this so I can fill it out for you?
22. Can I un-screen your entry if it's cute/funny?

(no subject)

As you have probably heard from isarma's blog, we are parents once again. He is a huge bundle of joy, and we are excited and relieved. Don't let her fool you, however. her pain is nothing to mine. My arms and legs are screaming sore, much worse off than anything she could possibly be feeling.

I wanted to thank everyone who came and supported her, whether emotional or physical, through the birth. It was a rather short birth, as I started calling everyone together around 12:30 am, and Bastian was born at 4:29. Really nothing more than a late autumn get together, and instead of boring board games, we birthed a baby! Woohoo!

Anyways, things are pretty good here, Declan and Sarah are so happy the could pee themselves, Bastian is wonderful, and Sarah sits around topless all day. Could be worse.

London calling

Last night I watched some of a show about scars and how they happened on MTV. I was flipping from Mindfreak, which is a real thrill-a-minute, and found a show that made me grind my teeth and my spine shiver and go, "Eeeewww!" over and over. It was one of the best shows I've seen on TV in some time.

Smallville is our latest dirty secret. We've gone back to our WB roots, sadly, and taken Declan with us. He likes parts of shows, rather than the whole thing, but it has become a family affair, a dinnertime treat.

Sarah is huge. With the way that this pregnancy has treated her so far, I sometimes think that she's going to crack apart physically, like a leg fall off, or the baby grow so large her pelvis fractures. I know, it's mostly paranoia, but an 18 lbs. baby does not seem that far off the mark.

The writing is on the wall...

I will be in need of a new job soon. My printing company got bought by another printing company, and they are MUCH bigger than we were, and they already had their own IT infrastructure. As a result, I might be in need of something to move to soon. I am revamping and updating my resume, and am looking now for somewhere to go. Anyone have any good leads? I am looking for an IT position primarily, Help Desk or Admin or Engineer type position.

(no subject)

I have learned a little about myself and poly in the last few months. Of course, in being with isarma, I have had many poly experiences, whether through her, or on my own. I have been dating dv8dgrrl for over a year now, with great success as well. I have had an experience lately that has definitely taught me a couple of other things about poly and considerations about the lifestyle.

I recently attempted to get involved in a situation, relationship? I'm not sure of the right word, but it was greatly disappointing. It was a situation where we both had enormous chemistry, but our orbits just never drifted close enough. We'd admitted to it, had kissed on occasion, but nothing other than that and a few short conversations. Things finally did drift close enough, and we had a date. One of the things discussed was our other relationships. She has other relationships as well, and we talked about rights and rules and freedoms. I am quite grateful that isarma and I respect each other's decisions about potential partners, and there is no veto power, no 'no list'. Unfortunately, I was reminded that other people, other couples, other houses often don't see things as we do. We talked about how I was currently on a 'no list', but that this was something she felt important to pursue. I felt that it was best for her to talk to the other(s) involved in her relationship about her intentions before we went out again, so everyone could make an informed choice about what she and they wanted to do. She agreed, and we parted ways. I then heard from her few days later about getting together again, and I asked her about is she had the talk. She hadn't, and I reiterated to her about talking to her other partners. In the 2 months since, I haven't heard from her.

There is more behind this story, such as why I was on the 'no list' in the first place, or influences on her decision to not have the talk, or to not contact me again. None of this is based in talking to me, and that hurts. It is also disappointing and hurthful of the level of disrespect about this. I will admit, on the other hand, that I thought this situation a long shot, so I did put myself into this situation by choice, knowing that it might blow up on me. Still, it has hurt, and it has been on my mind. I considered stuffing this, but this past weekend has has several things that hit me on the head for even more reminders.